A friend once asked me if it was her fault that she and and her boyfriend broke up. That maybe she over reacted to the situation. And if she could have saved the relation by not fighting with him. I told her only two things.

1. Reason. I am not superstitious but i do believe there is some kind of power controlling us. Everything in this world happens for a reason. Whatever we do it will happen. And there will always be a reason for it and maybe that is what life is. Its a long game. We have to see the answers unfold. 

2. He was freaking double timing with her. Guys like these deserve to be treated the way she lashes out at him. It was his fault entirely. And i could go on about guys but that can make a whole new post. 

So we'll keep this post a short one. I just wanted to let each one of you know. Guy or girl no matter what if you did something which felt right at any moment to you, which made you feel better. Never regret it. Even that slight bit of calm you got in the moment is enough for the action to be not regretted. And if you have questions. You'll find the answer to all of it. Just keep a close eye and you'll find the answer to every thing you want to know.

Monkey love to all. 💕 


What if. 

First of all i am not talking about The movie. Although i can go on and on about Daniel Radcliffe. I mean have you heard his accent? So sexy. And them eyes. 😻 

Sorry. Back to the point 😅

‘What If’.Two words. But isnt it amazing how our life most of the times revolve around these two words? You see, life gives you options most of the times and even if you make a choice there is always this ‘What If’. You’d choose to eat a chocolate ice cream but then you’ll think ‘What If’ vanilla would have been better? Mostly there is no easy solution to these ‘What If’ ( but in this case there is. Eat both the flavours dude. Its ice cream.) But  for instance you like two guys. You’ll choose one but then you’ll keep pondering over the thought of ‘What If’. What if the other guy was better for me? What if he was the one? What if i made the wrong decision? What if i end up sad and alone. Blah blah blah. But mostly we have these questions because we make choices by running away from them. You’ll list out the things you like in the ‘guy one’ and you wont even go to ‘guy two’ just for the sake of not getting confused. Dont let these ‘What If’ be in your life. Life is way better without them. Dont do that to yourself. You have the right to experience both the options and then make a choice so there is no ‘?’ In the future. And ‘What If’ in order to remove ‘What If’ you find something better? There is this quote “Live your life without ever having to ask, ‘What if?”. 

I strongly believe in this. And everyone should. Life is not to be lived with series of questions. They are mostly the ones that cause problems. Always be sure of the choices you make and then they’ll never turn out to be wrong or the bad ones. 

Monkey love to all. 💕