Book review #1 Dear John

Dear John by Nicolas Sparks

The first book review i decided to do is one of my favourite books dear john because this is not a typical romance story. Dear john has one of the most beautiful and yet sad love story. John being an army man falls in love with beautiful girl. And their summer romance start. They fight, laugh, love in those few weeks. And its enough for them to know they want to take it forward. 

Why isnt it a typical love story? I have read almost all of Nicolas Sparks book but this has an ending which seemed most realistic to me. And the end is sadly beautiful in its own way. 

The book shows what long distance relationship are, what is waiting for the one you love, and what is sacrifising you love. And especially what love makes you let go for the person you love to be happy. 

The most beautiful part of the book is the moon part. The line: 

No matter where you are in the world,the moon is never bigger than your thumb.


The line holds such beautiful and connecting meaning throughout the book and especially in the end. 

If you love romance novels which are not cliche like happily ever after, Dear john is a must read. ( Also there will be a bucket load of tears as the book moves along) 

In a words this book is the saddest yet the one of the most beautiful romance written. 

Special note: I loved the way it dealt with the lives of soldiers and how it affects the one they love's life. 

You can also watch the movie staring Channing Tatum and Amanda Seyfried which is amazing and will make you cry the whole 2 hour, But the book holds so much emotions which you can feel through the words.

Let me know if you like the review and want me to do more.

Monkey love to all 🐒💝

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New concept.

Hey people. I know i have been MIA. But exams you see. 

So since i have been gone i thought of a new concept which was bookreviews. 

I love reading books since i was a child. Its something which is a part of me. So i though of doing book reviews of some of the books which i have read and love. 

So tell me if you are interested in me doing book reviews. And the first review will be up soon. 

Monkey love to all. 🐒

Trust. 

Its a small five letter word. But how can it wrap your whole life around it. 

If any of you have felt like you dont trust anyone but you still have this hope that they are good. I know how it feels. Trusting someone is very difficult. You dont know what that person is capable of. But still there is this hope inside of you that they are good. I know how painful and how much difficult it is to hope again when that trust is broken. But do not do that. Hold on to that hope. The ability to hope for good in people is not bad. What is bad is the wrong person. 

We sometimes trust the wrong person. And it would feel like your own fault but it isnt. You see, we see people how they want us to see them. We believe in the image people create of themselves. Its NOT your fault that the person played you. You just wanted to believe in that image they created. And believing is good. Believe. But keep your eyes on their actions. Sometimes action speaks more than words. You’ll know how they really are. And a simple test? I read in psychology. When people are put under difficult situation, their true personality are shown. Try it if you want. *results are not promised to be good. Do it own your own risk*. 

Dont stop believing, trusting, hoping. But learn to let go when they are broken. 

Monkey love to all 💕

Reasons. 

A friend once asked me if it was her fault that she and and her boyfriend broke up. That maybe she over reacted to the situation. And if she could have saved the relation by not fighting with him. I told her only two things.

1. Reason. I am not superstitious but i do believe there is some kind of power controlling us. Everything in this world happens for a reason. Whatever we do it will happen. And there will always be a reason for it and maybe that is what life is. Its a long game. We have to see the answers unfold. 

2. He was freaking double timing with her. Guys like these deserve to be treated the way she lashes out at him. It was his fault entirely. And i could go on about guys but that can make a whole new post. 

So we'll keep this post a short one. I just wanted to let each one of you know. Guy or girl no matter what if you did something which felt right at any moment to you, which made you feel better. Never regret it. Even that slight bit of calm you got in the moment is enough for the action to be not regretted. And if you have questions. You'll find the answer to all of it. Just keep a close eye and you'll find the answer to every thing you want to know.

Monkey love to all. 💕 

What if. 

First of all i am not talking about The movie. Although i can go on and on about Daniel Radcliffe. I mean have you heard his accent? So sexy. And them eyes. 😻 

Sorry. Back to the point 😅

‘What If’.Two words. But isnt it amazing how our life most of the times revolve around these two words? You see, life gives you options most of the times and even if you make a choice there is always this ‘What If’. You’d choose to eat a chocolate ice cream but then you’ll think ‘What If’ vanilla would have been better? Mostly there is no easy solution to these ‘What If’ ( but in this case there is. Eat both the flavours dude. Its ice cream.) But  for instance you like two guys. You’ll choose one but then you’ll keep pondering over the thought of ‘What If’. What if the other guy was better for me? What if he was the one? What if i made the wrong decision? What if i end up sad and alone. Blah blah blah. But mostly we have these questions because we make choices by running away from them. You’ll list out the things you like in the ‘guy one’ and you wont even go to ‘guy two’ just for the sake of not getting confused. Dont let these ‘What If’ be in your life. Life is way better without them. Dont do that to yourself. You have the right to experience both the options and then make a choice so there is no ‘?’ In the future. And ‘What If’ in order to remove ‘What If’ you find something better? There is this quote “Live your life without ever having to ask, ‘What if?”. 


I strongly believe in this. And everyone should. Life is not to be lived with series of questions. They are mostly the ones that cause problems. Always be sure of the choices you make and then they’ll never turn out to be wrong or the bad ones. 

Monkey love to all. 💕  

Fairy Tales. 

I read those oh-so-happy-fairytales in my childhood. There was always a princess who got her prince charming in the end. All the girls wanted that prince charming. Who’ll come on a white horse and sweep you off your feet. But we all forget about the evilness in the way. The evil people of the story. And there is a very fine difference between the evil person and the prince charming. And sometimes we mistaken the evil guy to be our prince charming and give up on the whole princess thing. But its not the end. That evilness will break you. But you if you keep looking you just might find the prince maybe waiting with a pair of glass slippers? Dont give up on love just because someone gave you the reasons too. Its easy to give up but difficult to have hope and faith. Every girl deserves her own fairy tale. And you’ll find your prince charming. Just hold on. 

And to the prince charming waiting. Can you please see that the glass slipper is of Jimmy Choo or maybe Louis Vuitton? And preferbly black? Thanks. 😉 

Wishes. 

Wish you may, and wish you might”
Wish is something we all (even though we say otherwise) believe in. I have seen many people say that i dont believe in shooting stars, 11:11 etc. But at some point of their life they wished for something or the other even it was something as little as to pass in a exam or wishing for your favourite team to win.


But you may often see a person saying ‘my wish wasn’t fulfilled’. We very easily blame some other phenomena for our incomplete wishes BUT the actual reason lies beneath the nature of wish. We often tend to wish for something to NOT happen. For example, You continuously wish to NOT to fail in a particular subject. This is the negative nature of a wish. Whereas if we wish to pass in that particular subject it will be the positive nature of the wish. Always go for the positive nature.

I believe that Wishes are granted by angels. That is what i studied in stories. So Angels are attracted to positivity more than negativity. They are pure, positive creatures full of warmth. They’ll be attracted to positivity more and as a result listen to the wishes with positive nature. Thus, Explaining the why we should go for more positive wishes.

Wishes always felt so beautiful to me. Not because its magical or it magically fulfill our wants but because it gives people Hope. When they wish for something, they hold on to the hope that maybe it might come true. Hope is a powerful word. It gives you power within. 
Monkey love to all. 💕 
Also, I haven’t seen much of response on my previous couple of posts. I don’t really know what people want to read or relate to. And i am open to you guys opinions or advices. I’ll appreciate if you’ll let me know what you guys might want more from this blog.