Trust. 

Its a small five letter word. But how can it wrap your whole life around it. 

If any of you have felt like you dont trust anyone but you still have this hope that they are good. I know how it feels. Trusting someone is very difficult. You dont know what that person is capable of. But still there is this hope inside of you that they are good. I know how painful and how much difficult it is to hope again when that trust is broken. But do not do that. Hold on to that hope. The ability to hope for good in people is not bad. What is bad is the wrong person. 

We sometimes trust the wrong person. And it would feel like your own fault but it isnt. You see, we see people how they want us to see them. We believe in the image people create of themselves. Its NOT your fault that the person played you. You just wanted to believe in that image they created. And believing is good. Believe. But keep your eyes on their actions. Sometimes action speaks more than words. You’ll know how they really are. And a simple test? I read in psychology. When people are put under difficult situation, their true personality are shown. Try it if you want. *results are not promised to be good. Do it own your own risk*. 

Dont stop believing, trusting, hoping. But learn to let go when they are broken. 

Monkey love to all 💕

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Reasons. 

A friend once asked me if it was her fault that she and and her boyfriend broke up. That maybe she over reacted to the situation. And if she could have saved the relation by not fighting with him. I told her only two things.

1. Reason. I am not superstitious but i do believe there is some kind of power controlling us. Everything in this world happens for a reason. Whatever we do it will happen. And there will always be a reason for it and maybe that is what life is. Its a long game. We have to see the answers unfold. 

2. He was freaking double timing with her. Guys like these deserve to be treated the way she lashes out at him. It was his fault entirely. And i could go on about guys but that can make a whole new post. 

So we'll keep this post a short one. I just wanted to let each one of you know. Guy or girl no matter what if you did something which felt right at any moment to you, which made you feel better. Never regret it. Even that slight bit of calm you got in the moment is enough for the action to be not regretted. And if you have questions. You'll find the answer to all of it. Just keep a close eye and you'll find the answer to every thing you want to know.

Monkey love to all. 💕 

Fairy Tales. 

I read those oh-so-happy-fairytales in my childhood. There was always a princess who got her prince charming in the end. All the girls wanted that prince charming. Who’ll come on a white horse and sweep you off your feet. But we all forget about the evilness in the way. The evil people of the story. And there is a very fine difference between the evil person and the prince charming. And sometimes we mistaken the evil guy to be our prince charming and give up on the whole princess thing. But its not the end. That evilness will break you. But you if you keep looking you just might find the prince maybe waiting with a pair of glass slippers? Dont give up on love just because someone gave you the reasons too. Its easy to give up but difficult to have hope and faith. Every girl deserves her own fairy tale. And you’ll find your prince charming. Just hold on. 

And to the prince charming waiting. Can you please see that the glass slipper is of Jimmy Choo or maybe Louis Vuitton? And preferbly black? Thanks. 😉 

Wishes. 

Wish you may, and wish you might”
Wish is something we all (even though we say otherwise) believe in. I have seen many people say that i dont believe in shooting stars, 11:11 etc. But at some point of their life they wished for something or the other even it was something as little as to pass in a exam or wishing for your favourite team to win.


But you may often see a person saying ‘my wish wasn’t fulfilled’. We very easily blame some other phenomena for our incomplete wishes BUT the actual reason lies beneath the nature of wish. We often tend to wish for something to NOT happen. For example, You continuously wish to NOT to fail in a particular subject. This is the negative nature of a wish. Whereas if we wish to pass in that particular subject it will be the positive nature of the wish. Always go for the positive nature.

I believe that Wishes are granted by angels. That is what i studied in stories. So Angels are attracted to positivity more than negativity. They are pure, positive creatures full of warmth. They’ll be attracted to positivity more and as a result listen to the wishes with positive nature. Thus, Explaining the why we should go for more positive wishes.

Wishes always felt so beautiful to me. Not because its magical or it magically fulfill our wants but because it gives people Hope. When they wish for something, they hold on to the hope that maybe it might come true. Hope is a powerful word. It gives you power within. 
Monkey love to all. 💕 
Also, I haven’t seen much of response on my previous couple of posts. I don’t really know what people want to read or relate to. And i am open to you guys opinions or advices. I’ll appreciate if you’ll let me know what you guys might want more from this blog.  

Bad days and how to handle them. 

Life isnt always rainbows and sunshine.

These couple of days have been real bad for me. And its getting much worse. But I’ll let you people know what to do on these days. 

  1. Cry. I always thought crying was for weak people. And when i was a child and people used to ask me ‘Are you crying?’ I always got defensive that i dont cry. But now, At this age i realise how important it is to just let go and cry. There are all these feelings, anger and pain wanting to come out. So cry it out. Its the most harmless yet the most effective way. There is nothing wrong in being weak for few minutes.
  2. Do things that make you happy. It can be anything from getting a spa to just eating a good meal. Pamper yourself. It’ll help you forget about all the bad things for few minutes. 
  3. Write it down. Lots of you might feel at those moments that there is no one to talk to. So write it down. Even if you dont maintain a journal just take a piece of paper write everything down and at the end just write that ‘It will be fine. I will be fine’ And hide it any book or notebook and someday you’ll find it and read it and think how all of that problems dont matter now. 
  4. Take a day off. I was a little doubtful on this too. I just wanted to curl up in my blanket and be there forever but there was this thing in my mind that someone out there is having a much worse day and they dont get to just lay it off. So how can i? But its okay. It doesnt matter how much worse it is. If you want a day off? Take it. 
  5. Know that everything will be better eventually. I warn you though it’ll get much worse before it gets better. I thought on the first day that it’ll be better tomorrow but No. Its like a bruise. Before getting better it gets much worse. Black and blue and what not disgusting colour but then it fades away. 

You’ll get better i promise. I dont want anyone of you to feel alone on these days. Find someone to talk to anf if there is no one. I am here. I will listen to each of you. Just dont be crying alone in your room. Its not a good feeling. 

For rainbows to be seen there is always a rainstorm before. 

Monkey love to you all. 💕 

Clouds. 

I have always have had this facination with clouds. They just make me happy. I could keep staring at them all the time. And they are FLUFFY. Like cotton candy. 🙈 

Back to the point. So clouds have been a very major thought in my mind. I loved how they kept moving with me. In general how they kept moving and saw all these places. I always wanted to that. See places. 

And then i looked at the clouds one day. And i saw that how sky has different shades. There are that white clouds, the grey clouds, the blue sky, some yellowish light peeping from between. It makes all that so beautiful. 

So what i wanted to say is look at it this way. The blue sky is our life, the white clouds are the happy moments, the grey clouds are the sad ones and the yellowish light? Its Hope. You’ll see that light even if its all white clouds or all grey clouds hope is always there. 

And we love that rainy and pleasant weather right? I loooove it. Its my favourite. So have you ever looked at the sky during that weather? It comprises of all the blue sky, the grey and white clouds and the light. All these things is what makes it beautiful. And all the sadness, happiness and Hope. Is what makes life beautiful. Never lose that hope. Let that light shine at each point in your life. 

Monkey love to you all. 💕 

And please please all of you out there who read this. Hope. In yourself and others. It gets you places. ❤️

Take Chances. 

I was always stuck in the closet trying to hide away from public. I always told myself that ‘Man i dont need to be seen to be successful.’ Well, turns out i have to be seen to make a change. People will notice me. Each of you all must be thinking whenever you see someone that what they must be thinking about you. Right? So next time when you see a stranger inact one of those senario you made up in your mind about meeting someone new. I warn you it may turn out to be bad. But he is a stranger isnt it? What are the chances that you will face him again? Take Chances. If all my high school i learned something was to take   chances. You never know which one might turn out to be life changing. And well, dont look at me. I haven’t had my life changing chance till now but i am hoping this is the chance. 

Believe in yourself.

Monkey love to all of you. ❤️