Its been a year.

Hey people. I know i have been gone for too long. My last post was in October last year? But i have my last year of school this year. And its been so stressful. But i am back. And i promise i'll post as much as i can. And if you'll notice, i changed the description. And i am going to add so many different things to this blog. Hit me up with suggestions on what i should post about and i'll give the shoutout to the one i choose to do. New post will be up very soon.

Monkey love to all 🐒💕

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Looks and Does it matter? 

Hey lovelies.

So i know this is a pretty sensitive topic. But i just wanted to put out my view on it. We have always been told that looks dont matter. Its what inside that matters. Its true you know. A year back and still i think that why do people say that. When anyone looks at us the first time he notices how we look right? Its not like we walk around with a board around our neck with all our personality traits. In this generation or maybe any generation if a guy find you pretty then only he will come and talk to you right? 

I was not always the ‘Beautiful girl’ i was often termed cute or adorable because i was a little chubby. When you grow in a family with more than 20 people you are sure to be compared. Out of all my cousins who were hot, tall , beautiful and in a relationship. I was always the least attractive one being short and chubby and single and also a tomboy. But as time went by i realised that being cute is not a bad thing right? What if i am chubby? I love food. I eat more than a big bear. What if not many guys take interest in me its doesnt matter much right? I am still insecure about my looks but i am coming to terms with it. 

But now what i think is. Guys are not that judgemental you know? Maybe you are not the most beautiful girl in the world. But all the guys are NOT same. All of them have different concept of beauty. Maybe you are not beautiful to one but you can be beautiful to another. And most of all you dont need to be beautiful for anyone. Be beautiful for you. More than looks what attracts a guy or girl is attitude and personality. How you talk, the way you walk ( Oh i can rhyme) etc etc. If you are comfortable in your own skin then the right person will see that. You inner beauty reflects you know. Flaunt it off. Dont be afraid to be your own kind of beautiful. 

And this post is not only for girls. I know guys are insecure about looks too. So its for everyone out there who spend hours worrying about looks. I know there are lots of you like me who are insecure about their looks. So, Do something. Each of you tell me atleast one thing you love about yourself. Speak your speacial trait out load in the comments or even your insecurities. Once you speak your insecurity i am telling you with experience you’ll feel much better and maybe i’ll be able to help. 

All you beautiful souls.Monkey love to you all. 💕

Also i so so so love all of you out there for your responce on my last post. Thank you so much for the encouragement. You guys are truly amazing especially the ones who took time to comment and give me a boost. Much love to all of you. 💕 

High School

Were you also told that what you are and what you do in high school defines you? Well i wont say its all true and its not all wrong too. High School is a place where we learn a lot. I mean in life terms. That crush you had, the guy you dated, old broken friendships to new friendships. It all teaches you something really big. Pay close attention. 

One of the major things are. Relationships. Its so in fashion to have a significant other during high school right? I tell you what. It’s not. You are just a teen. What do you know about love. Okay maybe you know. But you have only lived 1/4th of your life how do you know he is the one? But i’ll also tell you to make memories. Have crushes. Flirt. Dance. Go out. Go on dates. Most importantly Make friends. Because when you and your best of friends go different paths? These memories are the only thing which will keep the bond alive. 

All i am saying is live your high school days. Life is way tough after that. Live to the fullest while you can. 

Monkey love to you all. 

Live to the fullest. 

And if in anyone way you think you can relate to me or want to talk. I am always up for a conversation. 💕

Take Chances. 

I was always stuck in the closet trying to hide away from public. I always told myself that ‘Man i dont need to be seen to be successful.’ Well, turns out i have to be seen to make a change. People will notice me. Each of you all must be thinking whenever you see someone that what they must be thinking about you. Right? So next time when you see a stranger inact one of those senario you made up in your mind about meeting someone new. I warn you it may turn out to be bad. But he is a stranger isnt it? What are the chances that you will face him again? Take Chances. If all my high school i learned something was to take   chances. You never know which one might turn out to be life changing. And well, dont look at me. I haven’t had my life changing chance till now but i am hoping this is the chance. 

Believe in yourself.

Monkey love to all of you. ❤️